Thanks! Now I have to work on actually finishing things.
Hoo boy. I have a lot of strong feelings on warnings culture in fandom, so I'm sorry if this comes across as dickish. I basically think that porn shouldn't have to conform to real life standards of Safe, Sane, and Consensual (I also think real life sometimes fails to conform to those standards, but that's a different kettle of fish). A lot of people use kink bingo to show how kink can be feminist and respectful and healing and totally not abusive, which is intimidating when you want to write about rookies being molested at the combine. Kink bingo should be the perfect home for that, but the mods also want it to be a safe space for trauma survivors, and I don't think it can be both.
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Date: 2014-06-13 03:59 am (UTC)Hoo boy. I have a lot of strong feelings on warnings culture in fandom, so I'm sorry if this comes across as dickish. I basically think that porn shouldn't have to conform to real life standards of Safe, Sane, and Consensual (I also think real life sometimes fails to conform to those standards, but that's a different kettle of fish). A lot of people use kink bingo to show how kink can be feminist and respectful and healing and totally not abusive, which is intimidating when you want to write about rookies being molested at the combine. Kink bingo should be the perfect home for that, but the mods also want it to be a safe space for trauma survivors, and I don't think it can be both.